I've fondly read the books on how to become a successful man and subscribed on related articles evermore. I've carefully watched lives of millionaires and billionaires how they are "living" life and their "being" as "having" life. I've also attended seminars on investments & insurance, studied 16 Habits of the Mind (HoM) and tried them all to unveil the secret. Moreover, I worldly familiarized the attributes of people's way to breakthrough.
Reaching our full potential is merely a myth. Likewise, our brain uses only 5% of its capacity and without any further thinking, what is about beyond there --- to the other 95%? If we are to use with the available unused percentage, we could have the power to control things or more. The Divine God don't even want us to control the decision and accustom by supernatural power, this is the beauty of human. That is why perhaps, the peak potentials many are quoting about were what individually can comprehend, partake and tackle.
My expertise is to train from children up to professionals achieve their levels. By doing so, I shall use an assessment tool to measure ones' abilities. However, the results could vary due to other considerations such as physical aspects or emotional influences during the time of test was administered. Sometimes than not even misused and abused the reliability and validity of it. To make it short, success is a process we need to go through whether or not...by the persistence towards hardship, we fly high! And like training our brain or the result of such progress, there are various considerations of that guaranteed optimal result. First, when we understand our faulty actions and don't deny that we need one. Second, when the training instruction was being executed and understood properly. Third, when the program fits, to realigned current situation and adoptable with the individual. As discussed, we were really influenced by many like successful people were inspired from different aspects of expertise and personalities.
(1) Has Sudden Doubtful Feelings
This normal mechanism appear to be strongest which later be coined as "intuition". Normally, 80% of woman has this ability to know what will be the cause and effect. It developed through the oversensitive towards their emotion that they able to know even other's feeling.
Successful people do doubt! Yes. It's a fact and needless to say, shall believed to this point. Even kings and presidents, prime minister to the powerful to lowest authority. While as of this moment, if you accept this notion immediately, you'll tend to go with the flow and later on washed away by other's view. They have the ability to (pre) judge and weigh things beneficial or sacrificial. Their awareness on the depth of the situations or gigantic solutions can be foreseen.
Truly, doubt is the key to curiosity. Doubt gives you sense of inquiry that creates the imagination part, active. Nonetheless, when you put your interest on something you produce a planning, strategize and implement --- in other words you act.
There are two observed types of doubt: destructive and impressive. It is sudden when we feel impress and the reaction is positive. Whereas, it boils down to become destructive when this was due overtime. After the delayed processing from our brain, it creates an unhappiness so we continuously doubt, corrupt and ruin such relationship or life's process.
2. Has No Peace of Mind
Do pondered how to became rich(est) or positioned on top(est) streamed from the hard(est) of life's event, puts me to know that their life is at risk and no peace!
Oftentimes, as I switch on the television, browse internet or read newspapers I will see the very updated negativity and downside energy of rape, robbery, war, accident... dirty politics, jeopardized science, unholy churches and inhumane acts. There are many other things to site, but it always capture me when a businessman/ millionaire was killed! Life is really the most valuable asset to be protected, cared and prayed for. Time is the fuel to make us successful at the give short span.
Life is indeed has no uncertainty. Your money cannot protect you from full harm, your life status cannot save you from crab mentality of people around you neither being ones desirable cannot made them looking up all the times. This uncertainty is a mind's torturing everyday. It can be concluded that each of us regardless of who and where we are, we fight to survive for betterment. This gives you, the more friendlier and comfortable environment you wish, the more difficult challenges you need to surpass.
As the 24-hours allow us to access, we shall do anything to gain the rest and establish our security bars. Where which when we have more than two people working with us to build these barricades, the more we must think of their safety too and so on. So, it never and won't stop by wanting or giving something more.
3. Has a Fearful Heart
It have been raised in many debates the issues of love, fear and respect. In the context of fear/love with God or fear/respect with parents or love/respect with relationship we belonged.
Think of a moment when your boss or leaders are afraid of doing "bad" things, what would it like be? However, life and chances are created due to balance of good and evil. Thus, the characteristics mentioned awhile ago is not a stand-alone. We can say we fear, because of respect due to deep love...or use it on a cycle of discussion.
Even an aggressive investor has a fearful hearts. Even an expert engineer could have shaky knees. A teacher who delivers lesson for 15 years still study to be up to date. One thing is for sure, they want everything a straight-forward answer and no mistake should be allowed. They strive perfectionism - though it is not right but target on what they've set goals, everyday.
We must accept that we have our shortcomings and what our hands can do is also limited. We don't need to reach and unmask our 100% superficial capabilities. When we embrace the truth of our being, we allow God to work on us with His holy grace. He can shower you the blessings more than the stars in skies can be. There you will find the true meaning of no doubt, with peace and feareth His ways.
A success can be derived from your individual happiness and peace of mind, countless friends, last-long relationship, financially educated (freedom), fathomable achievements, strong educational history, survived disease or medical condition, reconciled from broken family, tested faith and repented life in God. To a lot more!
In the given bullets, we should understand this valuable lesson lies in the richness of our hearts, should be like shot in the arm taken from:
Matthew 6:21 KJV
"For where your treasure is, there will your heart be also."
While here on earth, you can be a "successful" man by walking as a living testimony according to His will...your gifts! In this way, we are building the eternal wealth as we help to expand the kingdom of heaven, prepares our mansion over the hilltop with the street of golds around and reward a Heavenly crown!
